by stormstonehi
Life!!
I thought i could hold on to men, whenever i have needs like social aspects. As i am recalling my experience in my social life as based on my standards, all i see are problematic people...
From my contemplation, i may classify an individual socially:
1. The Genuine.
You get what you see. or the person is really indeed good which the physical look defies. The motive is good and could not afford to hurt someone is the supposed the character that im looking at. I considered myself as this kind of person because i could not afford to be someone else when Im not.2. Social Climber.
A person that establishes a social role that may not suit the real self. I had a female trainer who insisted to be a strong person in front of anyone, and had friends that had extraordinary status but as i assessed her, that she was so weak. She claimed to be a good psychiatrist but didnt really know how to handle each kind of student. She was always active with social gathering that had liquor drinking session but i found them unproductive. This type of attitude gave me a hard time for me to accept. They are apparent bullies and can be real danger to anyone.3. The Fake.
At first, they tend to be real. And in the long run, you don't find any problem but instinctively, you may feel that there's something wrong. You will just know that they're fake if the events are in the right harvest time. You will know that they are ready to devour just to get what they really want. If given
chance and opportunity, you would see them that they are social climber.It took me my life to realize and accept that they are kinds of this people. I admit that the social climber and the fake types of person have destroyed my life in real. The persons may be also a member of the family. Until now, these behaviors are mysteries to me which i don't know how to interact or how to handle with. This idea made me sad and satisfied at the same time because im on the point of seeing people so clearly.
The sad thing is... it is hard to find the first type or the genuine attitude. I decided to stop looking for someone i can rely on. Gladly, i have my mother and my brother whom i can classify as genuine. My other brother is a social climber, but he is better than most that i have met. I have cousin whom i thought be like me, but became the person that i don't know anymore. He was the guy that i grew with during childhood. But they are not totally evil because some of them helped us financially when my dad was in coma.
But im free to know the fact. Maybe this is the product of human survival since from the beginning. Im not done studying them, but i will not allow them to hurt me anymore.
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